Question by Teeyana1984: Is he not that in to me anymore?
I met this guy on facebook speeddating in october he’s australian and I’m mixed asian/white living in uk. he was coming to uk so we planned to meet up. He was totally into me after seeing my pictures. He was keen and we saw each other on web cam etc.. but we both knew it was not going to turn to a relationship from the start.
He was meant to come to uk in feb but he let me know he has postponed coming to uk till april.. he mentioned he’s seen someone but still keen to meet up as it’s not serious and he sill thinks I’m soo sexy.. then when he arrived he e-mailed then txt and we made plans to meet up… He was v keen throughout from start.. When e met up I had a feeling maybe he didn’t think i was as good looking in real life as in the pics.. maybe dissapointed! that made my confidence low at that time. But we went to dinner, then movies and he started to get sexual and kissed me… we left the movie early and had sex in the park.. it was dark at nite… suddenly things looked good and started to tell me how gorgeous i am from leaving the movie… Afterwards he gave me his jumper to wear and was talking and cuddling … (he has mentioned the girl he’s seeing wants a relationship but he has told her he’s not ready and maybe after travelling if they were still in touch it is possible.. and she understand that and still happy to hang out…) so he told from the start he’s leaving in few days to meet up with the girl to travel a bit then coming bk to london… when it came to time to say goodbye.. he said we’ll pro see each other again… he mentioned many things like a little later i’m here till next wednesday… let me know when u r free… then a little later just beforei was about to leave if i don’t c u again then he stopped and said nah nah i’ll c u again.. I didn’t get any txt bk after we left… maybe sayn thanx for a good time or anything
Because of the short time he’s here for… I was unsure if we’ll c each other again… so I sent him a txt asking if he wants to meet up before he goes.. i din’t get a txt bk.. n when we were both on fb he never talked to me… so i decided to send him a msg to for closure for me I said “I feel a bit like an idiot for sending u a txt to meet up again..I had mixed feelings wasn’t 100% sure u wanted c me again or not thats pro y i txt u.. I pro didn’t blo ur mind like u thaught i would… but thanx for meeting up etc.. goodluck x” and he said ”
hey dont think that. i had a good time. i havent had credit and have kinda been busy. might be able to meet up tues but im not fully sure. ill get some credit morro but.
and i haven’t replied and i don’t hold my breath for metting up… I’m just v low and feel like an idiot… Please tell me your thaughts on this? and sorry for the long msg..

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Answer by doctorgt3
YAWN. yeah, he thinks you smell bad.

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