Comments on: What Would You Do if You Just Found Out Through the History That Your Husband Has Visited a Singles Website?

By: ujd272

ujd272 — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 01:17:59 +0000

What would I do?
The next time I sit down at the computer, when he is around, I would pull up that website via the history and say, “Oh look what I found.” Let him explain himself.
If he doesn’t have a VERY good and VERY innocent explanation, it’s time for a loooooong talk.

By: sillydingybitch

sillydingybitch — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 01:04:46 +0000

leave him…

By: Italianbella

Italianbella — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 00:16:54 +0000

I allways check single site to make sure my hubby is not listed on any (He might be doing the same for you)
and if thats not the story then kill him..

By: Blacknight2006

Blacknight2006 — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 23:54:30 +0000

Best Answer!

Ms Kelli appears you already have a thought or two of what to do concerning this situation. Anger is good and I hope you manage that anger with logic when expressing to him you are aware of his activity on-line.

Now the major issue is why is good ole hubby is looking for singles. I will be the first to tell you that you will need not nagging him or press him about his activity this will only cause both of you to miss the point.
First ask him what is it that you can do to be more attractive to him. It’s your husband and you both should have a bond of some sort to not feel insecure in asking this question.

Take mental notes of what he like and try to fore-fill those request / suggestions(hopefully he is fair). Then if after your efforts it fails then deal with the issue as you see it – Ask the obvious, but be ready for his answer. Ask him “Do you still love me and is it weak or strong?” If he shows doubt or conflict in his response you know that you are already on the outs as far as his heart is concerned.

Realize that once a person has made a decision to leave the relationship from a heart level its a sure sign nothing will change that feeling.

By: uchaboo

uchaboo — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 23:41:21 +0000

Gee, what would I do? I would leave the SOB because, right there, he is telling me that he wants to play the field.
Really, do you believe him? Anything he now says in relation to his search for singles are proberly a crock of sh*t! I suggest, really, to get myself checked out. Just to be on the safe side.
I would also leave.

By: norman7774

norman7774 — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 22:45:02 +0000

I would confront him NICELY and NOT in a spying fashion and stated that you noticed(do not say you went to the history part of it) to the singles .. were you looking for a single or singles in this area or outside of our area. I would NOT say anything more… but sometime later.. you can see if he has visited it again..

By: bluez

bluez — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:51:02 +0000

Personally I would set up an account myself for some fake woman and contact him and see where it goes. If he sets up to meet somewhere, bust his a** and leave him.