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Question by MahGad: My guy friend “dating” a girl that’s using him, what do I do?
So, I have this really nice guy friend. He “dated” a girl for a few months who suddendly told him she’s not allowed to date. Apparently, they’re not exclusive and she’s allowed to date other people while he is not. He’s a really nice person and I feel bad that he’s in this situation that he doesn’t even realize. How should I hint to him that he should move on?
Yeah, maybe I should be minding my own business. I understand what you mean.

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mind ur business!

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Teen Dating Violence PSA – One Out of Three

Question by : Does he really hate me???Should I accept just being “friends” or cut off from him completely…??Help plx?
ok first of all I would I like to thank you people for reading my problem here…
im 19 and now ex bf is 21.After 6 months of being together..He dumped me a month ag0 ago via txt msg..cos I went out with my male friend to grab a can of juice and that I m oversensitive and emotional..(he says I have given him a reputation of being an abuser..because of my crying over arguments) I tried a lot to resolve the issue..talk it out….but he kept cutting my calls..said I wasnt worth trusting.”i have told u i hate whn u talk to guys now u GO OUT WITH THEM!!!” where his words..he kept walking out on me,hiding from me whnever I m around.We had a heated exchange..where I said he was being insecure and he said that I could goto hell..everything is finished.I stopped talking to him after that incident.15 days later I hear from mutual friends he got a new gf which he openly paraded in fb that he was very happy.Thinking everything was over..I began to try to get over him..I deleted him from my fb.
In the worst of coincidences….I had deleted him the very day..he was planning to “talk” to me before he goes for his vacation..forget everything and move on with our relation(he assumed i didnt knw abt his new relationship) he saw that i deleted him from fb..he msged my sis a farewell and told that I was a cheater I cheated on him with his uni friend…well..I did get angry at that..I had another heated exchange with him..telling that he doesnt trust me..and he accuses me of cheating..and that I cant go back to a person who doesnt trust me.In retaliation..he called me a bloody bastard and threatened that if he see me in a relationship with another guy..”u have no idea what u have coming”
I kept quiet..and just wished him a safe journey..cos I knw its his anger.Later that night he called me a ***** in front of our mutual friend.
I readded him on fb seeing he was hurt..and that he wanted to get back.I did apologize for my immature behaviour.His response was indifferent about it..he simply said “i dont knw u…I dont care whether u are hurt..or crying..u are nothing to me now” he has kept my friend request on pending..parading around in front of his friend..how he was happy and enjoying his vacations.He still has my sister added on fb on the other hand..wont delete me from msn or yahoo..I have tried a lot to resolve our issues..but he just wont budge making excuses..I dont have the time…etc.I did then 30 days of NC..a week earlier..he accepted my friend request on fb..i thought he has cooled down by now.I should try to communicate now.I called him to congratualate on his bro’s wedding.He was polite and civil.He asked how was I doing etc..I asked him whether he still hated me.He said “idk” well I apologized for all the stuff I did in anger and being immature..and we forgave each other that night.After saying good nyt.I txted him that I still miss him a lot and the old times.”
Three days later one night he comes online asked whether i missed him..I said yea i do.He said..”oh yea..y is that who are u?” I was kinda shocked he angrily said furthur u can goto hell for all I care.I dont knw u..u are a stranger to me.I asked him why he hated me so much?whn I only always treated him well.he replied that u should have thought abt that before u wnt for that “date”..he took that issue again…argued for an hour..I became defensive..and I said it was not a date..and that I tell him everything whn I get home.I never hide stuff from him.He simply replied “YOU told me after I got to knw abt it…last thing I can talk to u again..but I can never consider u as a life partner..u cant be trusted..now upto u to decide” I protested that I did nothing wrong to deserve all this…he said..just to do what i told u do and decide I dont want to talk furthur.I asked him before he left..did I really cheat on you? No reply…i said “does it mean u never loved me?” “yea maybe..nw bye and decide”
I was just devastated and brokedown.I cant understand him..one point he is being possessive and caring..doesnt want me to date….other point he hates me lyk em his worst enemy calling me a cheater..I almost lost my virginity to this guy…we were a passionate couple….he owes me nearly 200 dollars for our last going out together.( he borrowed but never returned) I still love him(he knws that very well and how emotional i m)…but he doesnt want me..what should I do..? Accept friendship..or just cut off from him completely…
He was such a loving romantic..and caring guy in the beginning..its like he has changed ( we Have a lot of mutual friends..I cant really avoid him uni:(

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